The 14 Best Sex Pillows to Help You Hit All the Right Angles

How do sex pillows work to enhance pleasure?

According to Dr. Fleming (and our own empirical evidence), great sex is all about angles. Sometimes it's hard to find the angles and sex positions that hit the G-spot or result in an orgasm, or ones that feel comfortable at all in the first place. “Wedge pillows, ramps, and mounts are all positioning aids that are designed to make sex more comfortable and more pleasurable by providing support and positioning for different parts of our bodies,” Mason tells ishonest. “These aids provide a firm base so that it's easier to reach and be in positions during sex.”

Sex wedges, pillows, and ramps also make it easier to try new sex positions and explore new angles, whether that's on top, in doggy style, or even side by side, says Dr. Fleming. They're also helpful during missionary position if you and your partner have a significant height difference, and provide more comfortable access for the giver during oral sex.

Can you use a regular pillow as a sex pillow?

If you're not sure if a sex pillow is for you, both Mason and Dr. Fleming encourage using a firm pillow that you already have to test it out. “[Using a regular pillow] is a great way to start, just to have a sense of the difference in the sensation and depth of penetration when you elevate your hips," Dr. Fleming tells ishonest. However, typical pillows for sleeping are too soft to support your bodyweight, so you could also opt for an inexpensive inflatable sex pillow to start out.

What should you look for in a sex pillow?

First, you'll want to decide whether you want a foam or inflatable pillow. Foam pillows tend to be firm and very durable, but they're difficult to travel with and present a spatial challenge for smaller homes, rooms, and apartments. Inflatable pillows are ideal for small spaces and travel-friendly options.

Sex position pillows, like any sex toy, come in different shapes and sizes, and some have additional attachments for handcuffs and vibrators or dildos. Wedge pillows are the most common shape and are ideal for propping up smaller parts of the body (like the hips or butt), says Mason. You'll also find cylindrical, bullet-shaped, or dome-shaped pillows that move with the body more, and larger sex furniture, like ramps or wedge-ramp combinations, which support your entire upper body.

How do you know if a sex pillow is right for you?

Sex pillows can be a great addition to anyone's sexual wellness arsenal, but especially if you have trouble finding pleasurable positions, need extra back support, or want deeper penetration. Not only do sex pillows enhance pleasure, but they're also excellent for anyone who has mobility challenges. “For some people, it can be difficult to get into the positions during sex that feel the most pleasurable for them, so pillows are a great way to be able to be in the position that feels the best without putting strain on the body,” says Mason. “So, no, they're not only for fun; they're also great sexual health aids for anybody who needs a little extra support.”

Here, find 14 of the best sex pillows (that are all expert-approved) from beloved sex health brands like Liberator and Dame, as well as versatile options from sleep retailers like Helix and Casper.

Dame Pillo Pillow

Dame's wedge pillow is on the smaller side and made with firm foam, a water- resistant liner, and a cotton cover that zips off for easy washing. “Some people don't have the space for a massive ramp, and the Dame Pillo is really high quality and a little bit more petite,” says Mason. “It's also something that you can leave out that doesn't look quite so much like it's a sex toy.”

Helix Wedge Pillow

While not specifically advertised as a sex pillow, Helix's wedge pillow is designed with a machine-washable cover, a cool gel memory foam layer, and firm polyurethane foam for plenty of support. Slide it under your hips for a little lift, or prop up your neck and head to enhance eye contact during sex for deeper connection.

Liberator Pulse Pillow

The Pulse Pillow is a sex-toy mount featuring two separate pockets, one for small vibrators that target the clitoris and another to tuck a dildo or other G- spot massager into. Straddle it for solo play or use it as a position cushion with a partner.

NaEnsen Wedge Pillow

Here's a velvety-soft inflatable wedge to lift your hips for enhanced sexual positions on the go. “Lifting the hips with a wedge pillow can make it easier to stimulate the G-spot or the prostate during penetration, whether that is with a penis or dildo,” says Mason. "So having the hips up in the air can provide a greater range of access to the body." Reviewers note that this one holds weight well and stays firm throughout the duration of sex.

Casper Hug Body Pillow

Another pillow that's not marketed as a sex pillow, Casper's bullet-shaped body pillow is great for side sleepers and as a bolster during oral or penetrative sex. It's on the softer side of pillows on this list, making it a good option for anyone hesitant about diving into the world of sex furniture. And hey, it also makes a decent throw pillow.

Liberator Wedge-Ramp Combo

Both Dr. Fleming and Mason recommend Liberator's bestselling wedge-ramp combo. You can choose to use both pieces together, thanks to their interlocking microfiber fabric, or separate them. You can also opt for an upgraded version that comes fitted with a cuff kit for BDSM and bondage play. “These attachments allow you to explore restraint,” says Dr. Fleming. “Any little bit of kink exploration I think is great."

Misstu Inflatable Mount Bolster Roll Pillow

Misstu's cylindrical bolster pillow is inflatable for easy traveling (and discreet storage). “Cylinders are great for going under the hips when you're face down,” Mason tells ishonest. “They're fun because they actually roll a bit. So where wedges and ramps are generally going to stay in place during use, cylinders can move with the body a little bit more, which some folks like.” This one also has a hole for a dildo or other sex toy for hands-free solo play.

Liberator Wedge Pillow

The Liberator wedge is top-rated for a reason. It has a moisture-wicking, microfiber outer cover (that is, of course, washable), and some reviewers say it's plus-size friendly. Dr. Fleming recommends using it for an upgraded form of missionary. “It certainly provides a better depth of penetration depending on the angle, and it could also give more clitoral stimulation since your hips are tilted up.”

Liberator Flip Ramp Pillow

Liberator's Flip Ramp is made with the same high-density foam as the rest of its suite of products. The base of this ramp flips up to become a sex cushion, which can help for giving oral sex—or any position where someone is on their knees.

Misstu Half-Moon Inflatable Support Pillow

Here's a dome-shaped mount pillow that lifts the hips higher for positions like doggy style. It also has a hole that fits a dildo or vibrator for masturbation. And with more than 1,200 five-star reviews, it's one of the highest-rated picks on our list.

Adam & Eve Inflatable Position Pillow

This inflatable wedge option has a soft surface that won't slip, and a handle for when it's, you know, really good. Like any wedge pillow, it's versatile enough to use during sex or as an ergonomic pillow to support your low back and neck.

Liberator Wing Sex Toy Mount

Another solid option from Liberator is the Wing, which serves as a bolster pillow for partner play and a sex-toy mount. It's also minimalist (and stylish) enough to sit atop your bed without anyone thinking it's a sex pillow.

Deluxe Comfort Lovers Cushion

This anatomically designed sex cushion has a low profile for anyone who doesn't want as much of a lift. It might not look like much, but like any sex pillow, enhancing the angle of penetration or stimulation is key. “For as simple as it is. I thought it'd be underwhelming. I was wrong...this thing is great," wrote one reviewer.

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